Since Sundays seem to be the only day that I don’t have a million fricken things to do, I’ve decided that I’ll make Sundays blog day. For some reason your body seems to just go into that lazy mode, and won’t come out of it 🙂
In my quest for the perfect relaxing Sunday, I did a bit of internet surfing, downloaded some new tunes, and just pretty much vegged; with a cold glass of mascot or as the popular term so deems it, mascoto.
And no I didn’t do it wit no hands…
Well, my music library is pretty nil now (since my music man isn’t home for the summer yet 😦 ) especially since it seems like there’s a new hit every five seconds, so I thought I’d replenish it. And since I write Romance, I try to keep my library full of sexy cuts like Trey, Drake, Omarion, Robin Thicke, Bachatas, and even some alternative love songs.
So, in my quest for love songs, or just some get down and get nasty music, hahaha, cuz I need that too since I write sensual Paranormal Romance; I paused to think about the slow jam, the alternative love song, or some of that just plain amazing 70s and 80 music that was sung by some relatively hot looking guy who swears that he meant the words that he sang.
(Love songs by women are entirely different), and for today this is about the
Steven Tyler’s, “Don’t go to Sleep”, Player’s “Baby Come back”, Journey’s “Send Her My Love”, Incubus’ “Wish You were Here”, Mike Posner’s “Please Don’t Go” Nevershoutnever’s “Trouble” Crossfades “Cold” and Trap’s “Echo;” they all seem to imply some romantic sense of what men think. Especially, when that certain woman decides that she’s had enough and walks.
But as I delved deeper into the music, I found myself going back to my roots, R&B, Bichatas, and the like.
My first impression was; why can’t men really think like this?
Seeing that I write sensual romance, I normally get my creative juices (my brain people) flowing when I listen to music. If it’s a fight scene, then it’s Evanescence, Nickel Back, Link n’ Park, Three days Grace, Disturbed ect. If it’s dialogue, then it Michael Bubble’, good old Frank, and 70s & 80s music as a whole.
However, when I get to the intimate scenes or argument scenes where the two main characters are pissed, have a huge fight to which one eventually storms out; I find myself going back to real R&B, (Tank, Tyrese, Usher, Robin, Jon. B., Trey, Jamie) or what my daughter and her friend like to coin Ridiculously Black Slow Jams, love songs (mostly women here, because after all, I am. I loveeee Adel) because it seems to stimulate my brain for what it is exactly that I need to write.
But as I was listening to it, Trey Songz to be exact, Role Play I wondered to myself;
“Why aren’t men really like this?”
If you’ve watched any of his videos, you would think that he was in actuality, the “Black Casanova”, because the sensuality just exudes from his videos. After that I had an urge to watch the video, and I was still amazed at how men just don’t seem to get it?
To my Male Counter parts out there;
This is what a woman wants!!!
Usher’s Trading Places is one of the hottest videos out there, and I suddenly thought; if men spent as much time watching these types of videos as they do say “Fucken Sports!” They would have a clue as to how a woman wants to be treated intimately, and essentially score major fricken brownie points.
( I actually dated someone who put it down like that lol, but we pretty much couldn’t have a civil conversation; but even with that, it was that insane intimacy that kept us coming back to each other).
Sadly enough, most men think that artist like Drake, Tyrese, Trey, and Usher are punks, because they give up too much shit. But here’s the thing guys, if you took even the slightest amount of advice from their songs; you know that hot chick that you’ve been after for so long?
She would ultimately melt in your arms, if you took your head out cha ass for like two seconds and said hummm, “Maybe there is something to this.” I swear, she would be eternally yours.
Even if you’re well endowed if you don’t know how to use it, and when I say use it, not just the sex; but the sensuality of it, then you’re still a douche. But learning, is fun, and maybe even actually go so far as to ask her what “She” wants.
You might just be the guy that women fight over.